Dating Someone Who Constantly Overthinks Everything

When you love someone who constantly overthinks, you are loving someone who’s mind plays tricks on them. You are loving someone who can’t help the way that they think. Who can’t help how much they think.

Someone who over thinks is someone who is always going to have questions. They are someone is always going to be processing one thing at a time, and then constantly be overwhelmed with what if’s and questions marks.

When you love someone who overthinks, you have to be confident in your relationship. And you have to be an over sharer.

Kordale and Caleb Share Racy Father's Day "BaeCation" Photo

While vacationing on a yacht in Cancun everyone's favorite photogenic couple shared a revealing photo where we can literally see whats going on with them below deck.  The kids are at the babysitters and they are out enjoying their father's day weekend like pros.  Glad they are still doing well!

Stay Single Until You Find Someone That Gives A Fuck About You

I used to have a fear of being alone, but nothing remedies that like the fear of ending up with someone who wastes your time. Being alone is not scary, or bad, or a curse, or any other bullshit thing that people make it out to be. Being alone is also not lonely, unless you make it lonely.

Being alone is better than settling for a bunch of shitty dates that make you feel horrible about yourself or waking up next to someone who calls you by the wrong name. Being alone is the time you have to get comfortable with yourself and that time is so important.

Brooklyn Couples Love Story Goes Viral On Instagram

The Instagram account @TheWayWeMet shares beautiful stories from couples. Alongside each picture is a description of how they met.

A posting that went up earlier today is already set to go viral after racking up 14,000 likes in ten hours. Nick met Dominic when they were 14 and 16 respectively.

Dom and Nick

‘Dominic and I met as teenagers,’ they say alongside the image, which was taken at a Pulse memorial event.

‘We went to different high schools but they were close in proximity, so we had a lot of mutual friends.

Anthony and Malcolm's Dapper Downtown Regal Richmond Wedding

Of all the wedding spotlights we've done, this is my favorite.  To say I'm a tad bit partial would be an understatement as I've known the couple for about 9 years and Anthony just so happens to be my best friend.  I've been there since the beginning, and I've seen all the ups and downs, the good and the bad and I'm happy to report its been mostly ups and a lot of good! Being present to witness them start this new chapter in their lives was truly a magical experience I'll treasure for the rest of my life.  \

Now on to the couple!

Grooms:

Study Says Open Relationships Now More Common Among Bi/Gay Men

At least in Austraila.  Open relationships are now most common form of partnership among gay and bisexual men, a new survey has found.

The survey taken by The Melbourne Gay Community Periodic Survey into the sexual behaviour of gay and bisexual men in the Australian state of Victoria found that 32% of the 2886 men questioned were in open relationships.

This compared to the 31% of respondents who said they were in monogamous relationships, and the 23% who said they were only having casual sex.

Southern Town Embraces First Gay Prom King

And a black one at that.  I WISH I possessed half of the courage it would have taken to bring a guy to the prom, but I must say the climate makes it a little easier today than it did when it was time for me to go to prom.   The couple looks great and its great that they had the support of everyone around them. 

 

Science Says: Your Mean Friends Really Just Want The Best For You

We all have that one friend that gives it to us straight no chaser, whether we asked for it or not.  They hurt our feelings and we often ask "Why am I friends with this asshole in the first place.  Turns out, a new scientific study backs up their constant baggering as someone who really just wants the best for you.

From Science Daily:

12 Reasons Why Old Souls Have Such A Hard Time Finding Love

1. They have a strong sense of identity.

They know who they are, which means they also know – specifically – what they do and do not want in a partner, what works and what doesn’t. While this is fantastic in terms of being able to choose wisely, it ultimately diminishes their pool of prospects pretty significantly.

You Date At The Level Of Your Self Esteem

If you knew better you'd do better, and if you felt better you'd date better.  We date at the level of our self-esteem. Your relationship is a direct reflection of your own self-love and self-worth.

A lot of TDL Seekers have written in saying that they are in a relationship (dating, marriage, etc.) with someone who they really are into, but they are not getting their needs met. They keep asking me how they have to change to keep the relationship going.

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