Thinking With The Wrong Head: Why We Do Stupid Things When We're Horny

"Boy you make me make bad decisions" - Ariana Grande. When it comes to making dumb decisions, being horny may be just as bad as being drunk, according to a Canadian study.

In one experiment, researchers had more than 100 people either watch porn or non-sexual video clips, and surveyed the viewers about how they would act in certain sexual scenarios.

The results: Horny people said they’d be more likely to make risky decisions in bed, like not wearing a condom.

When You Like Someone But There Is No Chemistry

One of the most difficult parts of dating is finding someone you click with.  We often look for fireworks or a spark when dating and when it doesn't occur it leads to disappointment or disaster.

I've often felt bad about turning down guys who were good guys but there was no whatsoever. You can't help it there's just something inside of you saying I know they are a good person but I don't think we should date.  

Helping Your Partner Cope With Childhood Sexual Abuse

Contrary to popular opinion men are often also the victims of sexual abuse. As their other half, at times you may have to help your partner though the rough patches of the healing process. You may feel like there's nothing you can do to help your partner address the lasting effects of childhood sexual abuse, but there's always hope. Discover ways to help your partner cope...and strengthen your relationship along the way.

If you remember just one thing, it's that love is very powerful.

Should You Take Back Someone Who Cheated On You?

"No, no, hell naw" - Beyonce. I used to be the type of person that would say I wish a motherfucker would cheat on me I would leave so fast. But every promise don't work out that way. Even when someone hurts you it can be hard to just leave.

Pretty much every cheater who has ever been found out has been sorry. But the question is whether they are truly sorry about cheating or just sorry about being caught. If you have been with your partner long enough, you may feel that you know when they are being sincere. If not, there are a few things to look for.

7 Reasons People Fear Falling In Love

Failing in love can be both exciting and scary at the same time. Especially if you've had a negative experience in the past. Sometimes we just can’t really commit to a partner, though he or she could be the one. Being afraid of love can keep us from leading a happy and loving life.

Here are 7 reasons why most people are afraid of love. Read on and find out if you can relate to them.

1. Unrealistic Expectations

Report: Married Same Sex Couples Earn Up To $60k More Than Straight Couples

If ever there were a better reason to find a winter boo and plan a spring wedding. Men in same-sex marriages tend to earn significantly more than their lesbian or heterosexual counterparts, according to new data released this week by the U.S. Treasury Department. Gay men had an average household income of $176,000 in 2014, $52,000 more than lesbian couples and $63,000 more than opposite-sex couples.

15 Questions You Can Ask On The First Date

Let's face it first dates can be awkward as fuck. What to wear? Where should we go? And most importantly what will we talk about? It’s true that first dates can be one of the most nerve-wracking, anxiety-producing situations in our society. Sometimes they lead to burning love; sometimes they go down in flames. The key to having a positive experience is relaxed conversation, and that can be helped along with some well-chosen first-date questions. Before we get to those, let’s review a few general guidelines for dating discourse:

Why We Attract Partners Who Aren't Good For Us

Some people are in your life for a season and others for a lifetime. It is rare that people stay in your life from childhood through to adulthood. Some friends from your youth may be in your life till old age, but that doesn’t mean you are compatible. It just means, like family, familiarity and consequence has forced your lives together.

When You And Your Ex Have The Same Friends

Sometimes friends become lovers and it’s not unusual to date someone from your social group or for a couple’s social groups to merge if they’ve been together for some time, but what happens when you break up? The chances are that if the break up was reasonably amicable you’ll both still get invited to social functions held by your friends.

There’s no reason why you and your ex can’t remain friends but there are a few things to consider when making the step from being in a relationship to being friends or acquaintances.

15 Things You Learn When You Find Out You're The Guy On The Side

There's nothing worse than thinking you've found the person you want to spend the rest of your life with only to find out you were dating a two bit loser that is in another relationship with someone else while you're together.

Being cheated on always sucks whether its a one time thing or they've been carrying on for some time but to have them romantically involved and declaring their love to someone else can be devastating.

There's a lesson in everything though.  Here are 15 things you learn when you find out you're just the guy on the side.