Have you been called cold and unfeeling? Some people get that impression, but you're not. You care deeply, but you just like hiding your emotions. Exes have said they broke it off because they couldn't get past the wall that you put up around yourself and they're right, they couldn't. Being emotionally unavailable doesn't make you less of a person, you still love and want to be loved, you're just afraid of letting someone in, it only gives them more power over you. You are your own hero. Here are some signs that you are emotionally unavailable: