Should You Take Back Someone Who Cheated On You?

"No, no, hell naw" - Beyonce. I used to be the type of person that would say I wish a motherfucker would cheat on me I would leave so fast. But every promise don't work out that way. Even when someone hurts you it can be hard to just leave.

Pretty much every cheater who has ever been found out has been sorry. But the question is whether they are truly sorry about cheating or just sorry about being caught. If you have been with your partner long enough, you may feel that you know when they are being sincere. If not, there are a few things to look for.

7 Reasons People Fear Falling In Love

Failing in love can be both exciting and scary at the same time. Especially if you've had a negative experience in the past. Sometimes we just can’t really commit to a partner, though he or she could be the one. Being afraid of love can keep us from leading a happy and loving life.

Here are 7 reasons why most people are afraid of love. Read on and find out if you can relate to them.

1. Unrealistic Expectations

Report: Married Same Sex Couples Earn Up To $60k More Than Straight Couples

If ever there were a better reason to find a winter boo and plan a spring wedding. Men in same-sex marriages tend to earn significantly more than their lesbian or heterosexual counterparts, according to new data released this week by the U.S. Treasury Department. Gay men had an average household income of $176,000 in 2014, $52,000 more than lesbian couples and $63,000 more than opposite-sex couples.

15 Questions You Can Ask On The First Date

Let's face it first dates can be awkward as fuck. What to wear? Where should we go? And most importantly what will we talk about? It’s true that first dates can be one of the most nerve-wracking, anxiety-producing situations in our society. Sometimes they lead to burning love; sometimes they go down in flames. The key to having a positive experience is relaxed conversation, and that can be helped along with some well-chosen first-date questions. Before we get to those, let’s review a few general guidelines for dating discourse:

Why We Attract Partners Who Aren't Good For Us

Some people are in your life for a season and others for a lifetime. It is rare that people stay in your life from childhood through to adulthood. Some friends from your youth may be in your life till old age, but that doesn’t mean you are compatible. It just means, like family, familiarity and consequence has forced your lives together.

When You And Your Ex Have The Same Friends

Sometimes friends become lovers and it’s not unusual to date someone from your social group or for a couple’s social groups to merge if they’ve been together for some time, but what happens when you break up? The chances are that if the break up was reasonably amicable you’ll both still get invited to social functions held by your friends.

There’s no reason why you and your ex can’t remain friends but there are a few things to consider when making the step from being in a relationship to being friends or acquaintances.

15 Things You Learn When You Find Out You're The Guy On The Side

There's nothing worse than thinking you've found the person you want to spend the rest of your life with only to find out you were dating a two bit loser that is in another relationship with someone else while you're together.

Being cheated on always sucks whether its a one time thing or they've been carrying on for some time but to have them romantically involved and declaring their love to someone else can be devastating.

There's a lesson in everything though.  Here are 15 things you learn when you find out you're just the guy on the side.

15 Tips To Use When Having The "So What Are We Doing" Talk

Are we fucking or are we just friends?  Are we moving towards a relationship or do we just chill from time to time.  Somewhere along the timeline of new interaction you have with a person and feelings are involved you're going to have to have "the talk"

The Define the Relationship conversation. There comes a point when one or both partners want to know, “Are we a couple or just hanging out together? Do we have the same idea about where this relationship is going?” So when you want to touch on the subject, here’s how to make sure The Talk goes as smoothly as possible:

Top, Bottom, Vers Or Alternative: Scientific Study Explains How Gay Men Figure Out Their Sex Role Preferences

In an article published by Scientific American, scientists attempt to uncover the reasons why some gay men feel they are tops, or bottoms or vers or not liking anal penetration at all.  Studies like this always facinate me because as someone thats vers they rarely seem to address us in these studies but in this one they at least attempted to.

From Scientific American:

8 Signs Its Time To End A Friendship

These bros ain't loyals, sometimes good judies turn to jealous jackasses and your bestie may become an enemy.Deciding whether or not to break up with a friend can feel like a roller-coaster ride of emotions. Yet when considered logically, it could clearly be the healthiest choice.

As we go through life, we naturally make new acquaintances and form friendships with a select few. While we put great importance on carefully choosing who we let in, we should remember to cut ties with those who start to drag us down.