Going On Your First Road Trip As A Couple

Road trips are a fun way to get to know your new boo, as well as an exciting adventure.  It can also be nerve testing, but it's also a great way to become closer to each other.  With Spring comes graduations, parties, Memorial Day, and shortly thereafter summer with all the travel it entails. You and your new bae may find yourselves facing a long road trip together for the first time.

How To Handle Seeing Your Ex In Public

Depending on how it ended, your ex may be the last person you want to run into once it's over. As much as we'd all like to pretend that our exes cease to exist after we've broken up with them, the harsh reality is that they are still very much living their day-to-day lives, even after they've stopped being a part of ours. And figuring out what to do when you run into an ex? Not so easy.

Why Talking Bad About Your Ex Does You No Favors

Most people have had some good relationships and some not so good ones. Some may even have been so good that you reminisce fondly on them often. On the other hand, others may have been so bad that you can stop thinking about how hurt you were and how terrible your ex was.

It can be hard to leave the past behind and not let it creep into and affect your future. This is especially true if you have been really hurt. The hurt can be so deep that it may almost feel like a part of you.

Feeling Invalidated

Assessing Your Partner's Mental and Emotional Health

Psychologists point out that the relationship between two people can be no healthier than the emotional health of the least healthy person. To put this in a positive context: Fabulous relationships happen when two emotionally healthy individuals get together and invest the energy to build something wonderful. Further, researchers have found that in two-thirds of all marriages that eventually end in divorce or separation, at least one of the partners suffers from an emotional health deficiency.

Guy Surprises Boyfriend With On The Job Proposal

Prepare to feel all the feels. In a video that has since gone viral since yesterday Demarrus surprises his boyfriend Chris while he's at work with flowers family and of course a ring. Demarrus caption the video:

"Today I made one of the biggest steps in my life... I love this boy we have been on the hush about us for a while... but for what... time we do what makes us happy... this my forever boy so today I showed I love this boy #I'm engaged."

Congratulations to the beautiful couple we wish them well in the future!

Black Gay and Married: Kirven and Antonio's Story

On the same day that marriage equality was passed in the United States making it legal for same-sex marriages to occur in all 50 states Proud Vision sat down with Kirven and Antonio Douthit-Boyd to discuss what it means to be gay and married in America.  

The couple also share their story of how they met at the famed Alvin Ailey Dance Theatre In New York City.  Check out the video below.

Watch: Wedding Spotlight: Dustin and Nathaniel

Dustin and Nathaniel who were married in September of last year share their wedding video. "We were married September 20, 2015 in Pasadena, Maryland. Please visit our website for more photos and information at www.nathanielanddustin.com."

Check out the video below.

Half of Gay Men Say They've Been In An Open Relationship

Nearly half of gay men have had an open or non-monogamous relationship, a survey has found.
The claim comes from a survey carried out by gay men’s health charity GMFA.

The magazine surveyed 1,006 gay men – and unsurprisingly found that a lot of them have liberal views about sex.

According to the survey, 41% of men have previously experienced, or are currently in, an open relationship.

Signs You're Moving To Fast In Your New Relationship

To say that sometimes same sex couples rush into relationships is an understatement. We can meet, be dating, moved in broken up and sleeping with other people over the course of a 24 period. But who or what determines if you are going too fast?

How A Sex Party Tore My Best Friend And I Apart

Found this in an email from and old messenging group.  Sadly the story is true.  Stupid.  But true.