It Wasn't You, Your Ex Was Just An Asshole

I know what you’re thinking. Did I do something wrong? Did I say something too intense, too deep? Was I too clingy? What did I do that made them stop talking to me out of the blue?

Listen up. You did NOTHING WRONG. This is not about you. This has absolutely nothing to do with what you said or didn’t do. This has everything to do with your ex. They're just an asshole.

You didn’t say anything to make them stop liking you. You didn’t do anything to make them all of a sudden start ghosting you. You weren’t too much. You weren’t too sensitive or too caring.

The brutal truth of it all, is that they never wanted your heart from day one.  They never had the strength inside to love you the way you deserved.  They never had the heart that could match the beauty of yours. They were never ever going to be that person for you.

I know you think it’s your fault. That it’s your fault they left That it’s your fault that it didn’t work out. And maybe you think that you could’ve changed them. That you could’ve turned their heart of steel to one of gold.

You can only change yourself.

This was not the person that you deserve. They were never going to be your next true love, or your next big great relationship. They were never going to be the one for you, no matter how much you wanted them to be.

Please do not blame yourself for them leaving, them ignoring you, or their immaturity.

This is on them this is their fault. You did nothing to deserve this. You did nothing to deserve this pain and this hole in your heart. One day, you are going to look back and be grateful that they left. One day, you are going to look back and wonder what you ever even saw in them.

They will look back and hate themselves. They are going to hate themselves for not seeing what was right in front of their face  They are going to be drenched in pain and guilt because they left the best thing they could have ever had.

And one day, you’ll find the love that you truly deserve. You’ll find a love that your ex was never capable of giving to you. And you’ll smile at your former self, telling the old you that it’s going to be ok.

You’ll be ok. You are going to flourish.  And as for your ex.  They'll regret the day they walked out on the closet thing to heaven on earth with they left you alone. 

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